my tween daughter was coming to kiss me goodnight and inquired about what i was reading. which sparked something utterly divine. it began a conversation between us that inspired us both. what unfold was the decision by my daughter to start her own blog! in our conversation, she began to realize that she really has something important and valuable to share with other young girls. Especially those with A.D.D. who are experiencing similar difficulties navigating their way through both puberty and A.D.D. you can't imagine how shocked i was and am!and proud!
whatever is to come of it doesn't matter much to me. what is important is that this strange turn of events may be her divine purpose gently unfolding. with internet safety in mind, we've decided that we'll make a blog for her today and together take the Blogger Challenge. as i sit on the edge of this event, i can see so many benefits to my tween having a blog:
- it's a perfect way for her to develop her writing skills without it having to be a burden like homework
- it will provide her with a consistent creative outlet which A.D.D. children desperately need
- it will give her the feeling that she is adding something to the world at a time when she still feels so small and insignificant
- it will serve as a sort of diary which can later provide insight into her own person and life
- it's an EXCELLENT way for her to get objective feedback from followers that she wouldn't ordinarily get in real life
- it's a safe way to explore who she is, what she really believes and what she is capable of doing well.
- it's a self-esteem booster especially for an A.D.D. kid whose life is mostly filled with constant corrections (behavioral or otherwise!)
so to all you blogging mom's out there with A.D.D. tweens and a bit of time on your hands (to be able to monitor ANd guide!), consider taking your tween under your blogging wing to see if they can fly! in fact, why not consider taking a blogger challenge with them?
I'm here by way of the BlogFrog...I'm so looking forward to the 31 day challenge. My daughter has a sadly neglected blog...maybe I can get her back into it. She's 12 and loves to write. Looking forward to reading more of your stuff!
ReplyDeleteWhat a great idea! As a teacher, I just know that your daughter can help herself and others with her blog. Good luck to both of you! How fun to have a blogging companion!
ReplyDeletestopping by from the 31DBBB challenge - That's so awesome your daughter wants to start a blog!
ReplyDeleteLove your idea of sharing the challenge with a child. That's a great idea! Your blog's looking great by the way - keep up the good work.
ReplyDeleteSITS visiting. ;)
What a fantastic idea. I hope she loves doing it.
ReplyDeleteVery cool! I"m happy for you and your daughter. Way to go for encouraging her, and thanks for the reminder to do the same. :D
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